Blog do Raul Buchi

Management of life by fear

Siddhartha Gautama, the Buddha, 400 years before Christ was the founder of Buddhism. I do not know much about the religion he has left, beyond what I need for certain understandings of contemporary philosophy. But, I find it interesting to start this post, to know...

Love

Love is a trap. In the way we live it in today, it was invented by social networks. Fast, intense, highly addictive and fleeting, it seems like a crack doze, as soon as its intense effect passes, the emptiness and necessity returns. But it was not always that way....

Cognitive conceptualization

leia aqui em português. The cognitive conceptualization, or cognitive map, is an evaluation tool focused on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. It is a strategy of understanding the cognitive processes, which allows, in an objective, organized and didactic way, to define...

Grudge, hatred, and sorrow

Frustration, fear, anger and sadness are emotions with organic bases so strong that, around the planet, almost all mammals are able to feel them in a similar way to what we experience. These primary emotions and their opposites, satisfaction, trust, love and joy, also...

Mothers day

Leia em português. We joke in psychology, that everything is always the mother's fault. And it is! She is the first safe place between the newly created biological being and the surrounding environment. Being then, necessarily, the intermediary of the relation between...

Peace can not be bought with money

Peace is not a bargaining chip. So, it does not have its coming guaranteed after the war, and after the death, no one knows. But in contemporary times, peace can be easily understood as the opposite of affliction. The negative mental restlessness that comes with two...

Living in the ocean of distortions

Leia aqui em português Something of fate condemns us to the burden or the prize of being who we are. And, in case you think it's a burden, you're thinking wrong. But if you think it's a prize, you are not very good form in the head also. Remember, life is simply...

Thoughts, feelings and, realities

An old argument among philosophers is the question between the rational world and the sensible world. The fight that has lasted for almost 2 millennia without reaching a conclusion of which of the two should be taken as the most reliable source for the understanding...

Consciousness and transformation

everything changes all the time, impermanence is a law like gravity. Therefore, that change is not only easy, as it is the rule and, as a rule, it is what should be happening all the time with us.

Blog do Raul Buchi

Rejection and affective neediness

Rejection and affective neediness

Feeling different is a lifelong thing. Feeling rejected is likely to happen throughout life. Feeling alone is something that can happen throughout life. But feeling permanently different, rejected, and alone is a sign that something in your set of beliefs about...
Eating and praying

Eating and praying

Several religions, including Catholicism, Hinduism, and Umbanda, recognize in food and food a spiritual relationship and communion with life, with equals and with the divine. In Umbanda as in Candomblé, it is understood that in the relationship of plants and animals...
Reading and mind

Reading and mind

Read this post with this playlist in youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1W4vrgm_5oM Reading has always been the biggest of my hobbies. I fish, photograph, track, collect MTG cards, but reading, comics, books, booklets, handouts, websites, leaflets … has always...
Rejection and affective neediness

Observations about coaching

We pass through life and, as you may have read in other posts, learns how to solve life’s problems or events by developing a repertoire that, with greater or less assertiveness, allows us to continue playing the game of life. Anyway, everyone has some experience...
To live: complexities and successes!!

To live: complexities and successes!!

Life is a very dop process and living is very cool !!! Often, to live is inexplicable, but it is always very dop and very cool !!! Life is not a watertight process. Although it has a beginning, middle, and end, life is a continuous, fluid and unpredictable process (we...

Jumping out of the window

Jumping out of the window, facing the pavement in front of the building, is more than a desperate act. In fact, it is much more than a call for help. In fact, it is much, much more than being alone, helpless, unloved or anything that counts. Think about a fire in your...